About
I’m a happy, successful, creatively fulfilled freelancer writer, who loves playoff hockey, the great outdoors, foreign film, indie rock, outlaw country, dinner parties and lazy days at home. I’ve spent the last several months searching for someone special in Vancouver (a.k.a. my hometown). Turns out he ain’t here.
That’s why on June 1, I’m embarking on a cross-country tour in the hopes of finding “The One”. Yup, I’m taking my search for Mr. Right on the road and I’m coming to a town near you!
Starting in VicTown and ending in St. John’s, I’ll be spending a week in ten of Canada’s greatest cities and I’m blogging all the way. So if you, or someone you know, is a sweet, forward-thinking, stand-up guy with a sharp wit and a totally amazing mind, drop me a line. (Keep in mind: I never use real names and I always protect the innocent).
In the mean time, check out my tour dates:
Victoria, BC June 1 – June 8
Calgary, Alberta June 8 – 15
Saskatoon, Saskatchewan June 15 – June 22
Winnipeg, Manitoba June 22 – June 29
Toronto, Ontario June 29 – July 6
Montreal, Quebec July 6 – July 13
Saint John, New Brunswick July 13 – July 20
Charlottetown, PEI July 20- July 27
Halifax, Nova Scotia July 27 – Aug. 3
St. John’s, Newfoundland Aug. 3- 10
Hi,
Cool project! It sounds like you’ve been having a blast. Seeing the country and meeting people. Makes one wonder why no one has thought of it before.
I’m Greg. I’m a relatively fit, 41, intelligent guy (at least smart enough to know how little I really know). I know I’m a little above your age range but if you’re willing to try younger, then why not a little older? Besides, I’m planning to copy my 90 year old grandfather, so really, I’m not even middle age yet!!
I’ve lived out in Vancouver for a while, then Nicaragua and finally, completed the circle by moving back home to Saskatoon. While I have throughly enjoyed my travels and plan on doing more, I am more focused on meeting that special person with which to build a family with. I’ve watched my sister’s familys grow and think that, in the end, that experience must be one of the most challenging and the most rewarding.
I’m very open-minded. I enjoy learning and trying new things. Love the outdoors, live music of pretty much any sort (in Nicaragua, saw a Spanish heavy metal band with a celtic twist… it worked quite well), playing sports, movies, and long conversations, with or without deep meaning.
Well, that should give you enough to work with. If I’ve piqued your interest enough to get back to me, great! If not, then best wishes for your continuing travels!
Have Fun!!
Greg
Would love to talk about this dating ‘thing’ I am very skeptical about this whole process. Meeting someone your compatible with, dating, etc… For a single father of 45 ready to fall ‘head over heels.’ But, if it could work for you, hey, I would give it a chance. “Lost in Canada, looking for Love” Tour! A single man looking for the love of his life, and not asking for directions! Lost in Saskatoon, but doesn’t take much time to be found!!
Rob Symchyck
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Hey Sarah,
Great to see your in the peg. Wonderful city with wonderful guys. I am in my 30’s full time job fit and am ready to explore the greater things in life. Looking for a soulmate and best friend. Would hate to miss the chance to take you out in Winnipeg. Dinner and dancing and whatever you want.
Hope to hear from you to get the chance
Hi Sarah, I was listening to 92 CITIFM this morning as I always do and heard you were on a quest to find that special someone. One of your qualities you’re looking for is an outdoor enthusiast. I really enjoy camping, hiking and CANOEING and have my own canoe. I’m a management accountant for an agriculture equipment manufacturer for an international company. I’m 6 feet tall, short dark hair, green eyes with glasses. I stay active by playing sports, biking, hiking, and recently started to run (I participated in the Manitoba Marothon relay team this past weekend). I have a good sense of humour, quick witted, open minded and chivalrous. I’m a huge movie-goer and I enjoy playing cards and board games, hang out at a pub for a beer listening to a live band. I’ve never been married and don’t have any kids and want some someday as soon as I find Mrs. Right. It would be fun to see you while you’re in the Peg! Looking forward to hearing from you! Cheers!
Hi Sarah! Wow good for you! WHen You come to the turn around point of your journey. I ask that you consider stopping back here in Beautiful BC and meet this homegrown BC guy (me). Lets talk about you making those plans.
Smiles MArk
Just read about your cross-country dating adventure.
It appears blondes can expect to have more fun, at least the beautiful ones.
As for having kids:
you are 37 now,
you should be in a relationship at least two years before thinking about marrying/conceiving (to have some expectation its going to last past the “honeymoon stage”), and
you want to have your kid before 40.
In short, you may embarked on this course without much margin for error. However, you’ve got lots of years left to help somebody raise their existing kids (which results in fewer stretch lines for you and the planet).
Wishing you all the best.
good luck sarah in your search for mister right, pass by the Aix if you ever come back in montreal!
Good Afternoon,
I just opened the paper this morning and read of your journey. I am amazed at your courage to take this journey. More so that you are publishing it for the world to read.
If you are free there are some spots I think you should see from our great province. I would be honoured if you would allow me to be your tour guide. I know you have a purpose on this trip, and I do not want to interfere with that. I just wish that you would see more than just Saint John.
Please allow me the honor of showing you the home I love. I have travelled Canada and beyond, and there are just some things that you can not get anywhere else.
I look forward to your reply, and future entries,
Yours Truly,
Alex
Hey, I’m not too sure if there is an age cap on this but here goes nothing!
I’m 21, an aspiring writer with a love for animals, horror movies, music and art. I’m not exactly covered in muscles but I’m definitely in shape. I love to talk about philosophy and pretty much any topic at all. I can be a bit shy at times but if I’m around a person for a little while I start to come out of my shell.
I don’t normally try to ask people out on dates, so when I saw this through K-Rock’s website I wasn’t too sure if I’d put my name up on the list. After reading about you on this site you seem like a really great person and I’d be honored to take you out on a date.
This is a great idea! Nothing like a adventurous roadtrip around the country to meet some new people. How are you enjoying Saint John so far? It’s nice you got to enjoy the Friday Fog just in time for the weekend. Hopefully you are enjoying our beautiful city , taking in all the history and beautiful outdoors experience. Look forward to following your adventures. Would be nice to chat. Jay
Dearest Sarah,
Co-workers of mine sent me this e-mail and suggested I might be interested in having a date with you when you are in the Charlottetown PEI area.
I am just about 23 years old but thats ok since you look 19, I would love to take you on a long walk on the beach, show you some of PEI’s finest dining and go to the Disco Cirque at our Confederation Center. We could even check out the new light show at province house and cuddle.
Let me know your thoughts and how your trip has been thus far !
Have a good afternoon,
Sincerely,
Bryce
xoxo
Have you thought of extending your search slightly south of the 49th parallel, namely to Michigan? I’m a professor of classical literature; 30 years of age; tenacious (I’m from England, don’t blame me!); in short, artsy without the fartsy, if I may borrow from your lexicon. At all events, best of luck; perhaps I shall try plan a tour myself as my own luck on this site has been quite woeful!
-Anon
Hi Sarah,
I heard about your adventure from the guys in the fishbowl. Unfortunately, I missed your phone conversation with the guys from K-Rock about your upcoming visit to PEI but hopefully you are kept entertained during your visit. Having grown up here, I highly recommend taking in a soft serve ice cream at the Frosty Treat in Kensington, and walking out the Sandspit (not the amusement park) in Cavendish. One of the great things about the island is that nothing is more than a day trip away.
Cheers, Leo
Hi Sarah.
This is captivating, yet almost impossible. But is it me or it feels like it is more and more difficult for you to continue?
[not fair for the east-cost!]
I must say that you look good when you smile and enjoy the moment. I really like that
and it must be fun to be with you. It is too bad you are going so fast across the country.
Good luck.
Hi Sarah:
I did the Ride to Conquer Cancer in Toronto a few weeks ago, and rode for a while with Tori Wright, whom of course you know from Lavalife. I had intended to try and get on your dance card while you were in Toronto, but due to some e-mail and timing issues, this obviously never happened. I am sure you’re read “Around the World in 80 Dates” (which I thought was a great book, and I have enjoyed your blogs).
I imagine that by the time you finish in St. John’s you’ll be all dated-out for a while (or engaged!), but if the former, let me know and perhaps we can start with a little e-flirting and see what happens. In the meantime, I hope you enjoy your last few weeks on the road and I hope I’ll hear from you in due course.
Ciao
Peter
Hi I just saw a link to your blog on a messageboard, I am In charlottetown,
How about steak and lobster on Thursday at Hunters ale house and a sneek peak at Globe World Flavors which will be the hottest night club east of Montreal in Canada. rtnowe at live
cheers.
Hi Sarah! Is 48 too old? ))) I listened to you this morning on K-rock and you sound and look terrific.You are a very interesting woman.
what a time for a typo its rtnowme at live. Also I am 32 in sept so I guess that makes me a Virgo. Whats your sign……
Hmmm…only city boys eh? Too bad. I mean for you of course, because the true gentlemen live in the country. You know, like in Huntsville, On
Hello D8′er!
I say D8′er because I run a company called D8 Night which arranges singles events such as speed dating and other fun mixers. I am the ONLY person in St. John’s, Newfoundland that operates a dating service and it seemed appropriate to contact you before you reach our fair, beautiful, exciting city and offer any help I can! We both recognize the importance of being adventurous when it comes to te dating scene after all!
If I can help kick-start your St. John’s experience and/or be a tour guide while you are here, by all means, please let me know. You can reach me by phone at 709-740-3733 and I can fill you in on what it is I do and help you in any way I possibly can! Dating services are new to St. John’s – and when I say new I mean I only launched this business in January.
I admire what you are doing. I always stress to my D8′ers that single people don’t just fall from the sky, that you must put yourself out there, be open-minded, and that is exactly what you are doing. I would be honored to meet you and hear about your experiences and welcome you to St. John’s!
All the best and Happy D8′ing!
Tara Lehman
a.k.a. Love Diva
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=630043877&ref=profile#/group.php?gid=119779885206
Hi Sarah,
I saw your interview this morning on TV and thought you did a great job. I understand your frustration about finding the right person. We are similar in age and some interests [opportunity to learn from another]. I have a contagious laugh, good cook, and a good dancer:) plus I also help run a local charitable foundation along with keeping up a career. Good luck in your search if I don’t hear from you and if I do then we can take it form there.
Bernardo
Wow. Just wow. This blog reads like a flaming train wreck aboard the RMS Titanic. I don’t know whether I should pity Miss Rowland or laugh at her. Probably the latter because this has to be a publicity stunt for a future newspaper column or book deal.
I’ve noticed a couple of recurring themes throughout her adventure.
First, virtually all the men she’s come into contact with are “Nice Guys.” Nothing wrong with that, but when it comes to dating and relationships these men they are the ultimate beta male wussbag herbs who painfully lack any romantic chemistry or emotional connection dealing with women. Woe unto these men. Pity them. For they are the bottom feeders in the evolutionary dating pool food chain unable to grasp a clear understanding how to attract women. They may be smart, wealthy, and confident in their line of work, but it very rarely translates into success with women. If this blogger is serious about finding someone, then pity her as well. For she doesn’t seem very soft or feminine and is desperate which is her ultimate liability. It is for these reasons why she attracts indecisive, inexperienced, needy, and clingy men who have no relationship potential who are future cuckold material if they get that far.
Another theme found reading this blog is dinner dates. This is the classic beta male trademark because it’s a loser’s gamble. When I’m out and about, I’m always amazed to see desperate guys sitting across the table from a smirking woman knowing she’s getting a free meal. The end game is a fat cheque, a bloated stomach, sleepy yawns and a peck on the cheek with the guy standing by the curb as the girl steps into a car or taxi waving good-bye. Home to porno these men go. Why? Because women like our Sarah know how to play the game better than men do. Think about all the time they spend reading relationship and dating advice – you think they don’t know more about the playing field than men? Come on. Besides, who in this day and age takes a girl to dinner on the first date in the first place? And a Western woman to boot? I’ll tell you who. Wussy beta males.
And Nelson went HAHAW
Here’s a big reason why I think her hunt to find someone is bogus. Sarah Rowland does NOTHING TO ENHANCE HER LOOKS! Her Lava pictures are homely and anti-feminine coupled with her joker smile. This does not turn a guy on. It may impress those working at Yuk Yuks, but Lavalife is a dating site, not a comedy club. If you’re a woman who posts pictures looking like a joke, be prepared to be treated like one. Isn’t it any wonder why so many men either stood her up or didn’t want to have anything to do with her? 70 dates in 70 days? Looks like her quota fell well short. I’ve always felt online dating is for losers who can’t cut it in the real world and need some kind of remedial help to prove their worth. But to be fair, some women put in an effort into their online pictures hoping to impress a guy. Sarah does not. You can tell she hasn’t experimented with ways to maximize her looks potential in a long time.
NOTE: You cannot compensate for a pear-shaped body, receding hairline, masculine wardrobe or a face in dire need of makeup with education, an impressive job, fancy purses or comedy.
Men are looks oriented. Period.
If a guy tells you differently, it’s because he’s either a liar or desperate and needs to get into your panties since he hasn’t had sex or a girlfriend in a coon’s age. Most men on this blog complimenting her fit this category.
Final Thoughts:
If you are older than 35, single, never married, and can’t figure out why, it is because you have standards that are higher than your attractiveness. I’m sorry, life is not fair, so you will have to lower your standards significantly if you want children or a husband. Not everyone is going to have an attractive mate. I’m thin, have back and ear hair and considers himself semi good looking, but since you are not as looks oriented as I, all I have to do is have Game: be interesting, have confidence and personality, make jokes, etc. in order to get with women more attractive than I am handsome. These game traits help you so much less than I that it would be wasting your time to work on them in place of body slimming or acting and behaving more feminine like women from eastern Europe.
I know every girl (or wussbag beta male) is going to write this off as too simplistic, unfair, and mean spirited. It’s too easy to blame socioeconomic forces, a lack of “quality men,” bad luck, or the media for a woman’s inability to attract one decent guy. So what I’m going to do is write a blog called “Don’t End Up Like Sarah Rowland” that will be a glorious resource for how to look at guys, how to talk to them, how to date them, and so on. We can work on everything but your looks, which make the greatest impact on the guys you get, so that you can at least say you’re trying to make changes.
“But Brian, I don’t want a guy who just appreciates my looks. I’m intelligent, independent, witty, funny, have a great career, blah, blah, bling, bling, blah.”
Accept it or buy more cats and remain single.